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What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman [Paperback Book]
What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman [Paperback Book]
What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman [Paperback Book]
What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman [Paperback Book]
What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman [Paperback Book]
What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman [Paperback Book]
What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman [Paperback Book]
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Q**m
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I don’t like how it was promoted as if it was appropriate for children to read when in reality it’s not. “A kids guide” shouldn’t have a chapter with “how to be in a romantic relationship or not” this should say a teens guide not a “kids guide”. And then page 140 mentioning gender identity.
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2026-02-10
S**👑
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Arrived damaged on the corner. ):
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2026-01-17
m**g
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We learned how to respect other people’s boundaries I love it
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2026-03-07
a**y
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My son loves this book, he goes to it almost daily for helpful tips on day to day interaction.
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2026-03-06
J**n
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Wish I would have known it was teaching pronouns, gender identity and activism. I ripped those pages out. Other than that. Ok.
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2026-03-04
L**n R**z
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Super effective and great for my special education classroom! I love picking things from here to do mini lessons on
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2026-03-02
n**t
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Just beware there are several topics that focus on LGBT issues and a dating section that depicts same-sex relationships.
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2026-02-28
K**7
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My son is loving it and we use real life examples while reading.
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2026-02-24
S**d
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Was promoted as for young kids, however there are topics like how to be in a romantic relationship which is not appropriate for young kids. Also has woke ideology about gender identity and how to protest. Ripped out a couple pages. Let kids be kids without forcing transgenderism down their throats!
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2026-02-20
S**e
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Great book for kids who are on the autism spectrum as well🥰🫶🏼🙏🏼
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2026-02-12
L**.
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Not what I expected. The content includes themes such as gender identity, pronouns and activism, which may not align with what some parents are looking for in a children’s book.
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2026-02-10
J**a E**s
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These are great little sections that I’ve been reading to my daughter and discussing before bed. They’re good for a short 5-10 min chat which doesn’t overwhelm her. Great content and easy digestion.
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2026-02-07
J**e T**r
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My daughter is 10 and is reading this without me telling her to. She like the pictures and comics
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2026-02-04
A**a
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Lots of great content, but way too liberal for normal kids. Great if you’re pushing a certain mindset and agenda.
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2026-02-03
m**🧡
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We are reading a few pages every night with my kiddo. It sparks great concentration.
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2026-01-24
T**p
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I thought this would have been great for my child but after reading through the pages, it immediately went in the trash. I would not recommend. Buyer beware.
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2026-01-20
S**t
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Instructive without being polemic. Cute illustrations but could use maybe a slightly more mature version?
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2025-12-29
F**a B** M**
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I’m thrilled with my purchase and it will be helpful for the soon to be high school graduate I got it for
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2025-12-18
a**d
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I would be lying if I said I didn't take a few notes before giving this as a gift to my little brother (18).
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2025-12-16
n**🔮
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This book looks awesome! Unfortunately, my autistic child who needs to read it refuses to 🤭 so I’m reading it and then donating to the school social worker.
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2025-12-15
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A NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER! From the bestselling author of How to Be a Person, this supportive guide to practical social skills guides kids 10 and up through establishing and maintaining meaningful relationships, communicating effectively, and getting along with others.
Middle school is an essential time to learn and practice social skills, including how to get along with others, talk about hard things, be an ally, and a good friend. In
What Can I Say?
, best-selling and award-winning author Catherine Newman provides supportive guidance and instruction to help kids establish and maintain meaningful relationships, with tips for effectively communicating with friends, teachers, family members, and their communities.
Talking the talk can be tricky, and every page of this useful book provides easy, accessible scripts and guidance on the right thing to say in all kinds of situations.
Learn how to:
· Be inclusive
· Listen thoughtfully
· Give advice
· Stick up for yourself
· Express sympathy
· Deal with offensive comments
· Respond to bullying
· And be trustworthy
Humorous, graphic-style illustrations that play out familiar scenarios reinforce Newman's friendly, non-judgmental tone and her commitment to helping kids develop the skills to express themselves clearly while showing empathy, care, and generosity towards others.
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Replying to @Evangeline Aguilera Help kids build confidence, kindness, and communication skills with What Can I Say? — a fun, illustrated guide to speaking up, making friends, and navigating tough conversations. #ttslevelup #creatorboostcamp #treasurefinds #ttsdelight #ttstakeover #tiktokshopcreatorpicks #ttsdelightnow #shopwomenowned #ttskids #wardroberefresh #ifyouknowyouknow #creatoricons #tiktokshoptrendingfreshfinds #creatornewarrivals #tiktokshoptopbrands #householdpicks #kidsbooks #socialskillsforkids #parentingtools #raisingkindkids #lifeskillsforkids #mindfulparenting #communicationforkids #kidsguides #readtokids #parentinghacks #childdevelopment #confidenceforkids #kidsreadingclub #kidseducation #backtoschool #emotionalintelligence #howtobeafriend #kindnessforkids #speakingup #talkingaboutfeelings #kidsgrowth
Denali
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Replying to @zulu.97 ugh I’m so sorry you were failed as a child ❤️‍🩹 hope you have found better role models as an adult #socialskillsforkids #socialskills #whatcanisay #parentinghelp
BooksBeWild
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Heck some adults need this too 😭 #whatcanisay #socialskillsforkids #socialskills #catherinenewman
BooksBeWild
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I invested into this book because I want to ensure dayvon know how to properly express himself during different circumstances… emotional intelligence is very important.. #BoyMom #DayvonJr #Reading
TheRealQueenKema
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I promise I am not judging anyone but myself. The pressure of being a first time mom, having a son without positive male role models of my own, and Covid taking preschool from us sent me into a permissive parenting spiral that I’m still climbing out of.  I now soak up every resource and tool to help my boys bridge the gap of emotional intelligence that was lacking in our household.  #goodinside #raisingboys #whatcanisay #emotionalintelligence
Kate | Resume Strategist
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Replying to @Kate Validating emotions is not the same thing as teaching emotional intelligence!  #raisingboys #emotionalintelligence #toxicmasculinity #whatcanisay #feministmom
Kate | Resume Strategist
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Help kids learn how to speak up, express themselves, and connect with others in a positive way. What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman is a fun, illustrated guide to mastering everyday social skills and navigating tricky conversations with confidence. #ttslevelup #creatorboostcamp #treasurefinds #ttsdelight #ttstakeover #tiktokshopcreatorpicks #ttsdelightnow #ttskids #kidlit #socialskillsforkids #parentinghelp #raisingkindkids #kidsbooks #socialemotionallearning #readwithkids #kidfriendlyreads #booktokkids #lifeskillsforkids #kidlitcommunity #parentingtips #childrensbookrecommendation #raisinggoodhumans #booktokforkids #selbooks #kidsreading #schoolreadiness #familyreadingtime #kidlitpicks
Denali
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I am raising the next generation. I want emotional intelligent kids that know how to deal with emotions, have hard conversations, and understand when it’s okay to walk away and set boundaries.  This is such a great book and walks through different scenarios they might encounter throughout life and how to deal with it.  #booksforkids #emotionalintelligence #parentingtools #kids #kidbooks
mrs.brittanybloom
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As a mom of boys with a degree in feminist studies, I assumed discussions about emotional intelligence would come naturally in our household.  I was wrong.  I have tried every book, podcast, parenting conference, even occupational therapy all centered around how to better teach my sons communication and empathy.  Round about discussions were not yielding the results I wanted i.e “How do you think Franklin felt when he fell down?” (My oldest always famously answers GOOD!)  These books and cards get to the heart of each communication skill that boys need all the more practice with.  So far, my kids think these are graphic novels and a game. They can sense the importance but we are keeping it light. I mostly want them to hear mine and my husbands answers to learn by example.  #emotionalintelligence #drbecky #goodinside #whatcanisay #raisingboys
Kate | Resume Strategist
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Replying to @stlfrgr Help kids build confidence and communication skills with What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman, a fun and practical guide to expressing themselves. Perfect for teaching social skills, making friends, and starting meaningful conversations. #ttslevelup #creatorboostcamp #treasurefinds #ttsdelight #ttstakeover #tiktokshopcreatorpicks #ttsdelightnow #shopwomenowned #ttshome #wardroberefresh #ifyouknowyouknow #creatoricons #tiktokshoptrendingfreshfinds #creatornewarrivals #tiktokshoptopbrands #householdpicks #tiktokshopbacktoschool #kidsbooks #parentingtools #socialskillsforkids #communicationforkids #childdevelopment #friendshipskills #confidenceforkids #kidslearning #lifeskillsforkids #parentingtips #readingtogether #kidseducation #learningmadefun #readtokids #teachkindness #raisingkindkids #kidslifeskills #positiveparenting #backtoschoolreads #kidsbookshelf #readmorebooks #kidsmindset #childrensbooklovers #kidsbookrecommendations
Denali
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I noticed some children don’t know how to properly compliment each other without throwing in insults, so I’m teaching dayvon the importance of compliments, what a backhanded compliment is, & understanding some people don’t take compliments well. #fyp #Boymom #DayvonJr
TheRealQueenKema
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Helpful guide for kids to start feeling confident in social situations #whatcanisay #socialskills #socialskillsforkids @Hachette Book Group
BooksBeWild
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Help your kid build confidence, express their feelings, and navigate tough conversations with this fun, illustrated social skills guide. What Can I Say? by Hachette is a must-have book for families, classrooms, and counselors. #ttslevelup #creatorboostcamp #treasurefinds #toptierjuly #tiktokshopcreatorpicks #tiktokshoprestock #ttshome #outdoorfun #ifyouknowyouknow #funinthesun #ttsthunderbolt #creatoricons #tiktokshoptrendingfreshfinds #creatornewarrivals #tiktokshoptopbrands #householdpicks #tiktokshopbacktoschool #kidsbooks #parentingbooks #socialskillsforkids #classroombooks #therapistapproved #emotionalintelligenceforkids #counselingresources #booktokkids #kidsmentalhealth #emotionsmatter #schoolcounselorlife #booksforkids #learningtoolsforkids #backtoschoolreads #readingresources #classroomessentials #childrencommunication #mustreadforkids #kidssocialdevelopment #childrensbookrecommendation #teachingfeelings #empathyforkids #educationalbooksforkids #newparentmusthaves #teacherfavorites
Denali
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This is a great book for kids that teaches them how to handle conversations and social interactions as they encounter them. It’s such a great parenting tool to raising emotional intelligent kids!  #booksforkids #kidbooks #emotionalintelligence #raisinggoodhumans #parentingtips
mrs.brittanybloom
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Still find saying goodbye difficult! #socialskills #socialskillsforkids #whatcanisay #whatcanisaycatherinenewman
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Replying to @authenticcristie Help kids build confidence and stronger connections with What Can I Say? — a fun, illustrated guide to speaking up, expressing feelings, and being a good friend. Perfect for navigating everyday social situations with ease. #ttslevelup #creatorboostcamp #treasurefinds #ttsdelight #ttstakeover #tiktokshopcreatorpicks #ttsdelightnow #shopwomenowned #ttsbooks #ifyouknowyouknow #creatoricons #tiktokshoptrendingfreshfinds #creatornewarrivals #tiktokshoptopbrands #backtoschoolreads #lifeskillsforkids #socialskills #kidsbooks #parentingtools #raisingconfidentkids #communicationforkids #emotionalintelligence #kidsliterature #kidsguides #howtobefriendly #empathyforkids #classroomresources #librarypicks #tiktokshopbooks #homeschoolresources #readtokids #kidscounselingbooks
Denali
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This book helps kids ages 9–12 build confidence in communication and strengthen important social skills to navigate real-life situations. What Can I Say? by Catherine Newman makes it easier for children to express themselves, make friends, and handle tough conversations. #kidsbooks #socialskillsforkids #parentingtips #childdevelopment #booksforkids
dailyfindswithus
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Replying to @mhatx Help your child build confidence and communication skills with What Can I Say by Catherine Newman. A fun and practical guide for kids to learn how to speak up, make friends, and handle everyday situations. #ttslevelup #creatorboostcamp #treasurefinds #ttsdelight #ttstakeover #tiktokshopcreatorpicks #ttsdelightnow #shopwomenowned #ttshome #wardroberefresh #ifyouknowyouknow #creatoricons #tiktokshoptrendingfreshfinds #creatornewarrivals #tiktokshoptopbrands #householdpicks #tiktokshopbacktoschool #tiktokshoplabordaysale #parentingtips #kidsgrowth #socialskillsforkids #parentinghacks #childdevelopment #classroomessentials #schoollibrary #kidsbooks #readingforkids #lifeskillsforkids #confidenceforkids #backtoschoolreads #booktok #educationtools #raisingkids #childrensbooks #readingtime #kidscommunication #schoolcounselor #teachingsocialskills #kidfriendlyreads #parentingessentials #teacherresources #tiktokshopfinds
Denali
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This is a parenting tool that is going to help teach our kids emotional intelligence in social situations. This is a parenting resource to be read to your kids about social skills and interactions.  #emotionalintelligence #parenting #booksforkids #kidsbooks
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