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To Have and to Hold: Motherhood, Marriage, and the Modern Dilemma by Molly Millwood, PhD [Hardback Book]
To Have and to Hold: Motherhood, Marriage, and the Modern Dilemma by Molly Millwood, PhD [Hardback Book]
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Highlights
Insightful exploration of new motherhood's emotional and psychological challenges
Written by clinical psychologist Molly Millwood, PhD, blending science and personal stories
Addresses identity loss, guilt, and relationship tensions after baby arrives
Offers practical guidance to help moms reclaim themselves and repair partnerships
Hardcover edition, 288 pages of supportive, relatable content for new moms
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Dangerous Goods Or Hazardous MaterialsNo
AuthorMolly Millwood, PhD
LanguageEnglish
Year2019
Number Of Pages288
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A clinical psychologist’s exploration of the modern dilemmas women face in the wake of new motherhood
When Molly Millwood became a mother, she was fully prepared for what she would gain: an adorable baby boy; hard-won mothering skills; and a messy, chaotic, beautiful life. But what she did not expect was what she would lose: aspects of her identity, a baseline level of happiness, a general sense of wellbeing. And though she had the benefit of a supportive husband during this transition, she also at times resented the fact that the disruption to his life seemed to pale in comparison to hers.
As a clinical psychologist, Molly knew her experience was a normal response to a life-changing event. But without the advantage of such a perspective, many of the patients she treated in her private practice grappled with self-doubt, guilt, and fear, and suffered the dual pain of not only the struggle to adjust but also the overwhelming shame for struggling at all.
In To Have and to Hold, Molly explores the complex terrain of new motherhood, illuminating the ways it affects women psychologically, emotionally, physically, and professionally—as well as how it impacts their partnership. Along with the arrival of a bundle of joy come thorny issues such as self-worth, control, autonomy, and dependency. And for most new mothers, these issues are experienced within the context of an intimate relationship, adding another layer of tension, conflict, and confusion to an already challenging time.
As Molly examines the inextricable link between women’s well-being as new mothers and the well-being of their relationships, she offers guidance to help readers reclaim their identities, overcome their guilt and shame, and repair their relationships. A blend of personal narrative, scientific research, and stories from Molly’s clinical practice, To Have and to Hold provides a much-needed lifeline to new mothers everywhere.
Publisher: HarperCollins
ISBN/ISSN: 9780062838650
Number of Pages: 288
Year: 2019
Language: English
Cover Type: Hardback Book
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Introduction
Becoming a new mom is a wild ride—full of joy, chaos, and unexpected challenges. In *To Have and to Hold: Motherhood, Marriage, and the Modern Dilemma*, clinical psychologist Molly Millwood, PhD, dives deep into the emotional and psychological twists that come with new motherhood. She knows firsthand how this life change can shake your sense of self, happiness, and even your relationship with your partner. This hardback book blends Molly’s personal journey with scientific research and real stories from her clinical practice, offering a compassionate look at the struggles many women face but rarely talk about. From grappling with self-worth and autonomy to navigating the shifting dynamics in marriage, this book sheds light on the complex feelings of guilt, shame, and loss that can accompany new motherhood. At 288 pages, it’s a thoughtful guide for anyone wanting to understand or overcome the modern dilemmas of motherhood and marriage. Whether you’re a new mom yourself or supporting one, this book offers practical insights to help reclaim identity, heal relationships, and find balance in the beautiful chaos. Ready to explore the honest side of motherhood and marriage? *To Have and to Hold* might just be the lifeline you didn’t know you needed.
Q&A
Is this book suitable for new mothers struggling with identity and relationship changes?
Absolutely! It offers expert insights and real stories to help new moms navigate emotional challenges.
Who is the author of this book?
Molly Millwood, PhD, a clinical psychologist specializing in motherhood and relationships.
What format does this book come in?
This is a hardback book with 288 pages.
Does the book include scientific research?
Yes, it combines clinical research with personal narrative and case studies.
Can this book help with postpartum guilt and shame?
Yes, it provides guidance to overcome guilt and supports emotional wellbeing after childbirth.
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